Happiness 101

Correction Appended

One Tuesday last fall I sat in on a positive-psychology class called the Science of Well-Being - essentially a class in how to make yourself happier - at George Mason University in Fairfax, Va. George Mason is a challenge for positive psychologists because it is one of the 15 unhappiest campuses in America, at least per The Princeton Review. Many students are married and already working and commute to school. It's a place where you go to move your career forward, not to find yourself.

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The class was taught by Todd Kashdan, a 32-year-old psychology professor whose area of research is "curiosity and well-being." Kashdan bobbed around the room or sat, legs dangling, on his desk beneath a big PowerPoint slide that said "The Scientific Pursuit of Happiness" as he took the students, a few older than he, through the various building blocks of positive psychology: optimism, gratitude, mindfulness, hope, spirituality. Though the syllabus promised to "approach every topic in this class as scientists" and the assigned readings were academic, the classroom discussion was Oprah-ish. The students seemed intrigued by the research Kashdan presented mostly in relation to their own lives.

The focus of Kashdan's class that day was the distinction between feeling good, which according to positive psychologists only creates a hunger for more pleasure - they call this syndrome the hedonic treadmill - and doing good, which can lead to lasting happiness. The students had been asked first to do something that gave them pleasure and then to perform an act of selfless kindness. They approached the first part of the assignment eagerly. One student recounted having sex with her boyfriend 30 feet underwater while scuba diving. Another said he "went to Coastal Flats and got hammered." A third attended a Nascar race in North Carolina, smoked, drank and had sex. Some also watched favorite TV shows; others chatted with friends.

When it came time to talk about the second part of the assignment, the students were excited, too. The Nascar attendee, who was afraid of needles, gave blood. Another collected clothes from family members and donated them to a shelter for battered women. The boy who had gotten hammered bought a homeless person a 12-pack of "Natty Ice" at a 7-Eleven, wondering if it was the right thing to do. A fourth gave her waiter at Denny's a tip. At times, Kashdan, who ran the class in the nonjudgmental manner of a '70s rap-session leader - he used the word "cool" a lot - would compliment them on their behavior and pull out a moral. In this case, as one student wrote in a summary she submitted to Kashdan, comparing "a day at the spa covered in really expensive French" stuff and "a day of community improvement covered in horse" manure, the smile on the community organizer's face "beat out the smile on the masseur's face any day." That is, she had learned that doing good is good for you.

Though Kashdan brought up published studies that optimistic people live longer and that certain regions of the brains of positive people show more activity ("Have a very active left prefrontal lobe day," he joked at one point), in class they didn't spend a lot of time on clinical research. Absent were the rats with electrodes, data charts, syndromes and neuroses. The main experimental corpus seemed to be the students themselves, with Kashdan assuming the role of therapist, asserting that pleasure isn't enough. True happiness comes with meaning, he said, and the students agreed.

I sat in on the course a few more times during the semester, and when Kashdan was done with pleasure versus selfless giving, he took up gratitude and forgiveness, close relationships and love, then spirituality and well-being and finally "meaning and purpose in life." "I never use the word morality," Kashdan said. Rather his goal was to show that "there are ways of living that research shows lead to better outcomes."

More than 200 colleges and graduate schools in the United States offer classes like the one at George Mason. At the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, Barbara Fredrickson passes out notebooks with clouds on a powdery blue cover for each student. At the University of Wisconsin-Stevens Point, students pass out chocolates and handwritten notes to school custodians and secretaries. The introductory positive-psychology class at Harvard attracted 855 students last spring, making it the most popular class at the school. "I teach my class on two levels," says Tal Ben-Shahar, the instructor. "It's like a regular academic course. The second level is where they ask the question, How can I apply this to my life?" True, the course is known as a gut, but it is also significant that 23 percent of the students who commented on it in the undergraduate evaluation guide said that it had improved their lives. "It wasn't until my senior year that I started thinking maybe law school wasn't for me," wrote one graduate, Elizabeth Peterson, in her biographical précis for the masters program in applied positive psychology at the University of Pennsylvania. She had decided to take the class on a whim. "I was pretty much hooked from there. I realized that what I loved the most was talking to people about their problems."

Positive psychology brings the same attention to positive emotions (happiness, pleasure, well-being) that clinical psychology has always paid to the negative ones (depression, anger, resentment). Psychoanalysis once promised to turn acute human misery into ordinary suffering; positive psychology promises to take mild human pleasure and turn it into a profound state of well-being. "Under certain circumstances, people - they're not desperate or in misery - they start to wonder what's the best thing life can offer," says Martin Seligman, one of the field's founders, who heads the Positive Psychology Center at the University of Pennsylvania. Thus positive psychology is not only about maximizing personal happiness but also about embracing civic engagement and spiritual connectedness, hope and charity. "Aristotle taught us virtue isn't virtue unless you choose it," Seligman says.

Sitting in Kashdan's classroom, you might wonder whether psychology had abandoned its proper territory or found a new one, and if a new one, whether it owed more to science or to Sunday school. Perhaps that was because the class reflected the discipline's own tension between simplicity and complexity, "good tough science," as Seligman calls it, and airier talk of values. With its emphasis on the self in the world, positive psychology is already an ethics seminar. Which is fitting, given that it has its roots in a Socratic dialogue of sorts. Seligman likes to tell the story of how his daughter Nikki, when she was 5, accused him of being a grouch. She reminded him that he had criticized her for being whiny and that she had worked hard to stop whining. If she could stop being whiny, he could stop being grumpy. He realized, he says, that she was right, that he was "a pessimist and depressive and someone of high critical intelligence" and that he needed to change. Seligman, who at 54 had just been elected president of the American Psychological Association and was renowned for his hard science - most of his research had been in depression - decided to put his considerable talents into finding out "what made life worth living."

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D.T. Max is a frequent contributor to the magazine. His most recent book is "The Family That Couldn't Sleep," a scientific and cultural history of fatal familial insomnia, mad cow and other prion diseases.

Correction: January 28, 2007

An article on Jan. 7 about the psychology of happiness misstated the given name of a Brazilian psychologist who studied positive reinforcement in the workplace. He is Marcial Losada, not Marcia. The article also misspelled in one instance the surname of another psychologist who has done work in the field. She is Sonja Lyubomirsky, not Lyubormisky.

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